OK, just a quick little affirmation for myself for this afternoon (or maybe a prayer, call it what you want ;))

I will stay patient and just enjoy the day.
I will not bring up R AT ALL.
I will make sure to involve myself with in-laws and not just focus on W.
I will be the new Moose, and just go with the flow.
I will not ask her to come home tonight under any circumstances.
No pressure, no expectations, just unconditional love.

And I'm going to pray with one of my sister's favorite quotes...thought some of the BITS guys would like this one:

"Lord, please keep your arm around my shoulder...and your hand over my mouth."

Have a good day everyone.


BITS
M: 35
W: 27
T 7.5 years
M 5 years
No kids
My EA: 3/08
Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?)
ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11
W at parents house: 4/16/11

Do or do not, there is no try