Sweetie, I'm sorry. True, she is nowhere near being ready to face what she needs to face. She still has a long way to go.

She is still blaming you and is unable to take responsibility for her part in all this.

You are just going round and round with her. You need to really let her go. This is a journey she has to take on her own. You need to let her.

Hang in there, my friend.