He's coming home soon. I'm just trying to be nice at this point and act "as if" everything is normal. Offered him a ride (he declined), offered to make dinner (he declined but I'm doing it anyways... the beef can't sit another day in the fridge), asked him to get me an onion at the store since all ours had gone bad (he said yes).
So when he gets here, no pressure, no R talk, no pursuing. I'll be light and friendly. He can drive the interaction. The way things are going lately, he'll probably just bolt up to the guest bedroom and hide there until tomorrow morning where he'll find a reason to leave again.