TrueGritter You have my utmost understanding and sympathy. I empathise so much with you, I don't think you'll ever really know. I wish the PM function was working somedays, so I could help in any small way. Your W has a lot of growing up to do, just as my H. does. They're well and truly stuck way back there probably at under 5 years old emotionally. It's so hard for them to carry the adult burden when they're still functionally children in so many ways.
You keep growing TrueGritter, you are f*ckin awesome, don't ever forget that. Your W can't see it right now as wrapped up in her own pain, dysfunction and warped perception as she is. I pray one day she can see what a sterling example of a man you are for her sake. You are going to be better than Ok True.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
