Tryin to do what works

[islander]

One thing i have seen is that the anniversary question comes up in almost every sitch, and it was hard for me...not to mention I screwed it up big time. Mine was right after christmas, so I combined the events and got a nice necklace for my W. Dumb. I shouldnt have done anything at all, but felt like I had to. Anyway, I am afraid that if you go on this trip with your W, that you won't be able to help but have expectations. It is natural. When we went out of town to work on things, it was the most expensive and most horrible time in our marriage, literally. I got her rings thrown at me on a street in a major city, then had the long ride home the next day. And we were supposed to be working in things.

Just be smart when you make your decision.
And thanks for checking on me today.