I am so sorry. That text would have put me in misery too...there is so much conflict in was is said by WAS. "I love you and our family life and always will *BUT* I am leaving..." That makes no sense to me. Its like they have some pre-programmed urge to migrate at a certain time in their life to see if the grass is greener.
When you are going through hell, KEEP GOING! It can only get better Islander, it can only get better. Sometimes all we can do is wait, hope, and pray for our WAS. I am glad that she feels badly about herself and what she is doing to your family...she should.
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011
