Thanks Brooklyn. You are right again with very good advice.

Me being gone is not a tactic. I am doing it for me. I just get hurt when I see her and everyone has been telling me to pull away. That is what I am going to start doing.

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13