Thanks Antonia. I KNOW W is not the same person she was even 1 year ago. She did "flip" virtually overnight.
S16 is mad at me. W is coming to pick him up in 2 hours and we had the following conversation:
M: Is your mother still planning on getting you at 4:00?
S16: Yeah. Haven't heard otherwise.
M: Well I won't be here when she picks you up.
S16: Why not?
M: Because I don't want to be.
S16: Why?
M: Because I just end up being hurt when I see her. I'm going to keep my distance.
S16: That's stupid. You should be here.
M: Well, I'm not going to be.
S16: Just be here.
M: Not today.
S16: God. That's stupid!
M: Why what's wrong?
S16: Because now I'm going to get asked questions.
M: Why?
S16: Everytime you're gone or she knows you have plans, I get flooded with questions. I hate it.
M: What do you mean?
S16: Where's your dad? Where is he going? Where did he go? That's all I hear.
M: I doubt that.
S16: I hear it all the time.
That was pretty much the conversation. It surprised me that W has been asking questions. I really didn't think she even had any interest in me or what I've been up to. She'll really be curious after today. I'm pulling away and becoming mysterious....
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13