Moose, I just got caught up with your sitch. Sounds like you are doing a lot of things right and you're struggling with a lot of things the rest of us are. I can totally identify with WAW syndrome where you'll have a good day and she pulls back the next. Sometimes it seems like it's every other day it's one way or the other.
I say cancel the reservations. You don't need the drama right now. Sandi's advice was very sound. I don't think W wants any of that right now and it's probably going to have the opposite effect of what you want it to.