Thanks 9 and JB...I learned something yesterday during my talk with God. I think he let me know why all of this just happened. Have you ever heard the phrase "Don't pray for patience for you will get it!"? Well, I've been praying for a couple of things...One, that my W will see my changes in every interaction with her...Two, that I get practice on some of my new skills/attitudes...So her doing this was exactly what I prayed for. I got to practice not blowing up and remaining calm when things don't go my way (being an adult). And Tammy got to see a entirely different side of me. She may not realize it now, but when she thinks about it, my response was a total 180 from how I would have responded during our marriage.
So after learning all of this, it really isn't as bad as it seemed at the time. She may or may not contact me anytime soon but I am ok with that. She is also seeing that I am forming boundries and my counselor said she may try to test them. I will hold strong.
