Stop and think about celebrating a wedding anniversary when you are S from your W. Does it make sense to do the whole hotel, dinner thing?

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And also, I'm wondering about gifts...W and I have discussed the fact that I have a tendency to go overboard


No gifts!! Nothing! Zero! Zip!

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I had planned to make her a photo book of pictures from our honeymoon in Hawaii, but I know that would probably be WAY too much given the current situation


That would just about seal the doom of the M if you do that!

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As of now, we're spending the day there on Saturday, we have dinner reservations,


So it has been discussed? Who brought it up?

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maybe a nice card that's not too heavy on the "I Love You" sentiment


Again, think about the current situation. Remember, no pursuing, no pressures.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!