Hi,I like many others wish I had found Michelle's book sooner. My H walked out in Jan/2010,after 27 years of marriage.None of his reasons for leaving made sense.I then discovered he was involved with OW. We went to counseling 5 mo. after he left for 2 mo. where he agreed to stop seeing the OW to work on our marriage.He was away on a business trip last summer and I discovered she was with him.He promised again not to see her and to continue counseling.But again I discovered he was with her.I spoke to her.This infuriated him and soon after he asked for a divorce.Now he wants to go forward with a legal separation.How I wish I had found this book earlier.Calling the OW was not a good idea.Any advice for going forward.
