So W sent me this text a little while ago:

"I am so sorry I hurt you. I think the best thing to do is to leave you alone, let you heal and go our separate ways - I think you are a great husband and I am sorry I treated you the way I did - I do not ever want to treat another person the way I have you. I will always love you and the family life we had. We need to talk about the bills sometime Sunday or Monday... I paid most of them this morning leaving us both 200$ for the next two weeks."

I replied:

"You are making the choice to leave me and our family life. It doesn't have to end that way...but you can't see that "


I probably messed up again, i am not going to keep the convo going. I said what I said. It hurts, and I cried my eyes out. I just don't get it


BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...