Whoa. I am getting more confused. Remember ladies, I am a jock. Phys Ed teacher. All kidding aside, Sandi, you know I respect your opinion as much as anybodies here but your last post has really confused me.
I have been hit with some mild 2x4's the last couple of days which seemed to suggest that I wasnt acting very kind towards my wife. I was pretty dark after her mom died in March and then there was the Easter fiasco where we almost acted like a married couple minus the intamcy ( some may argue , that is the married couple) and after that , I have been more or less dark with her where I only respond to her when children are involved.
Are you suggesting that I persue now and try and win her back from OM? YOu are right , I was acting like the jealous H. My plan was to remain relatively dark but respond to her texts with a little more light banter instead of my curt, one word responses.
Is that not the way to go now? Do you think I should stop giving her the time of day instead because I really was doing just that and it P1ssed her off but maybe that was a cheesless tunnel.
I dont condone what she is doing, OM is there as we speak as I just dropped off youngest son at dance and his truck is in the driveway but that didnt surprise me. Still gave me a jolt. (Before anyone says Im stalking, Im not, no choice but to go that way in this one horse town, didnt have to look but i did)
To be honest Sandi, Im not sure if you are kidding here because you do have a sense of humour I noticed over the months.
Please clarify and tell me if you think 25's advice is not the way to go. I am confused at the moment.
I respect both of you but it seems that your advice is completely the opposite of 25's.
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9, No disrespect but are you friggin kidding me?!Re-read Sandi and 25's post. Its clear to me.
Quit relying on every word from them or us. Realize the sitch and and MAKE your own decisions. We will help you, but you have to interpret the advice on your own.
You are paralyzed right now. Whether fear or anger, you are paralyzed. If Sandi and 25 write out your words for you, you might have to pay them for their services
Just re-read and un-paralyze yourself. You will be amazed at what you can find in you. It's there I see it in your posts.
