Tad I don't know if this is the case in your situation, but my xh was always mean to me when with ow. I could tell sometimes when he was alone, our conversations were better. He said to me once...just let me go and go through whatever it is I am going through. But then again, to get. To leave him alone he would tell me anything I wanted to hear. All he was interested in was his YOUNG women and his drinking. My xh hardly ever took a drink until he left. He was a cop and worked a lot. When he wasn't working or home he was fishing. He fished a lot of tournaments. Since he has remarried he doesn't fish as far as I know. Fishing was the one thing he loved. He said to me one evening after court that she (ow), was already complaining about him fishing and he told her that wad tough. Well he sure changed his tune, Tad when my xh left, he didn't even take all his clothes. He left almost everything he had. He walked away and didnt turn back.. Anger....anger....anger....that was what I got. BUT I didn't listen and stay away.
Tad they do seem to change overnight. They don't even ave the same hobbies, or at least mine didn't. I will never understand it.
