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[tadpole1025]

Thanks Kara and AJ.

I don't think that there is anything wrong with wishing her Happy Mothers' Day.

I will probably just send her a real short text message. Nothing fancy.

Tad, you are doing very well. And you won't piss me off. Really. I post to your situation because I think it may help to offer an opinion. To help you see things differently. From the eyes of somebody who's been there and done that.

Thanks AJ. You've been a big help my friend.

The sooner you back off the quicker you can heal and so can she.

This is hard. I've pretty much gone dark, but I guess I need to go pitch black. As I've said in earlier posts, I'm just afraid that if I pull back, she'll do the same.

Consider yourself radioactive to her. The closer you get the sicker she becomes.

This is a good way to look at it.

I'll be honest. I know that these changes are for me, but I'm still holding out hope to save my marriage.

She says that she wants to be friends and still wants the best for me. She can be so nice sometimes and turn around and be so mean other times.

I also feel sometimes that she doesn't even know what she wants. She hasn't mentioned divorce in probably a month.

The weekend? I may do some bowling. Haven't been in a few weeks.

AJ, are you still not divorced?

Tad