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Re: M exit strategy ~ kd ~ #2152366 05/07/11 05:09 AM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast 2 25yearsmlc Member
25yearsmlc Member 2 Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast	You are just tired. You are FAR from detached. Most of your posts are about her and what you think will happen to her or what you think she thinks/feels/does and you put a negative spin (critical) on most all of it. Instead of talking about HER diet or HER exercise programs, which you only have some knowledge of, why not talk about what YOU are doing to get healthy? Do NOT project negatives onto her activities...(why even comment on them?)... That's NOT helping you emotionally and it hurts your R with her...so why keep doing it? You are tearing her down to make yourself feel or look better but it does NOT happen that way. You just feel worse and the R deteriorates even more...And it sounds like the old you, right? Stop backsliding. Forgive yourself, forgive her, and DETACH...(that won't happen over night but you have to start somewhere and right now I'd say DETACH and put a STOP SIGN in your mind when the thought of OM comes into your head. STOP GOING THERE.... Focus on you and what you CAN control, which is only you. What are the 180's you are doing? The GAL activities??? M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 2016 X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016 = CLOSURE 4 ME Embrace the Change

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M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/16/11 07:06 PM
Re: M exit strategy	sgctxok	04/16/11 08:33 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	04/16/11 11:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/16/11 11:25 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/17/11 12:40 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/17/11 06:13 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/17/11 12:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 02:06 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 02:28 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Forrest Gump	04/18/11 04:21 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 12:27 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 01:02 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 01:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 01:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 02:17 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 04:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 04:18 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 04:39 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 05:34 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 05:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 06:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 06:32 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Mach1	04/18/11 06:53 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/18/11 08:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 02:40 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 02:57 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 06:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 06:55 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/19/11 08:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/19/11 08:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 05:25 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/20/11 07:52 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	04/20/11 08:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 08:38 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 08:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Eryam	04/20/11 08:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/20/11 09:05 PM
Re: M exit strategy	hydin	04/20/11 10:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	OnMyWay	04/21/11 02:37 AM
Re: M exit strategy	OnMyWay	04/21/11 02:44 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 03:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 09:19 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 04:53 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 02:22 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/24/11 03:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/25/11 05:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	04/25/11 06:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	2stepboogie	04/25/11 07:22 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Redo	04/25/11 07:29 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/25/11 09:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/26/11 12:51 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/26/11 09:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	04/26/11 09:49 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	04/26/11 11:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/27/11 04:01 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/27/11 04:15 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/27/11 02:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/25/11 06:24 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/21/11 02:45 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	04/18/11 03:38 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	04/27/11 10:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	04/29/11 08:39 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	04/29/11 10:21 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 01:03 PM
Re: M exit strategy	jbnati	05/03/11 01:40 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 04:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/03/11 06:37 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/03/11 08:10 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/03/11 11:18 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/03/11 11:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/04/11 02:29 AM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/04/11 01:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/05/11 07:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/05/11 07:33 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/05/11 07:43 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/07/11 03:55 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/07/11 05:09 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/07/11 06:41 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/08/11 05:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 06:10 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 06:26 AM
Re: M exit strategy	islander	05/09/11 01:01 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 10:13 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/09/11 10:26 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/09/11 11:23 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 01:59 AM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 02:09 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:14 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:20 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 02:32 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 03:51 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/10/11 12:48 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 01:54 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/10/11 02:01 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 03:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	TulsaTime	05/11/11 03:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 04:04 AM
Re: M exit strategy	TulsaTime	05/11/11 05:23 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/11/11 01:20 PM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	05/11/11 03:19 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/12/11 04:55 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/12/11 05:17 PM
Re: M exit strategy	♪CS♪	05/12/11 05:46 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/14/11 08:05 AM
Re: M exit strategy	ninelives	05/14/11 12:53 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/14/11 01:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/17/11 04:35 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/17/11 05:38 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 04:34 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 06:36 AM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/18/11 02:21 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 03:06 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 03:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/18/11 03:37 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/18/11 05:30 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 01:56 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 02:13 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 02:25 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 02:33 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 09:44 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 03:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 04:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 04:49 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 05:12 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 05:14 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/19/11 06:08 PM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/19/11 11:07 PM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/20/11 07:04 AM
Re: M exit strategy	25yearsmlc	05/20/11 08:33 AM
Re: M exit strategy	~ kd ~	05/20/11 04:16 PM
Re: M exit strategy	Starsky309	05/09/11 02:48 PM

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