Sandi, thank you for your suggestions about how to respond to her inquiries. I hadn't really thought of it in that way. I do see that she's trying to keep me interested so to speak...
25, we actually did buy the tickets together. We went to see this band together about 6 months ago and W fell in love with them. She noticed online that they were coming back to town and asked me if we should get tickets. I know that she really does not want to miss this concert, which is the only reason why I brought it up.
I know that the tone of the paragraph I wrote about the concert made it seem like I was expecting to go with her tomorrow night, but please don't ignore the paragraphs above it. I feel like I've turned a corner today. And keep in mind that I have NOT initiated any of the contact since the confrontation on Wednesday, and I have kept the R talk out of ALL of our interactions...which is my #1 goal for what to continue going forward. My DB coach has told me that I need to walk the tightrope maintaining our connection while not falling into pressuring and pleading.
Just had to note the timeline you have...no R talk..."since the confrontation WEDNESDAY..." if that's a long time to you, I guess
Moose, we just have really different timelines...
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