Mission 25. I Really Mean it this time>

[ninelives]

Whoa. I am getting more confused. Remember ladies, I am a jock. Phys Ed teacher. All kidding aside, Sandi, you know I respect your opinion as much as anybodies here but your last post has really confused me.

I have been hit with some mild 2x4's the last couple of days which seemed to suggest that I wasnt acting very kind towards my wife. I was pretty dark after her mom died in March and then there was the Easter fiasco where we almost acted like a married couple minus the intamcy ( some may argue , that is the married couple) and after that , I have been more or less dark with her where I only respond to her when children are involved.

Are you suggesting that I persue now and try and win her back from OM? YOu are right , I was acting like the jealous H. My plan was to remain relatively dark but respond to her texts with a little more light banter instead of my curt, one word responses.

Is that not the way to go now? Do you think I should stop giving her the time of day instead because I really was doing just that and it P1ssed her off but maybe that was a cheesless tunnel.

I dont condone what she is doing, OM is there as we speak as I just dropped off youngest son at dance and his truck is in the driveway but that didnt surprise me. Still gave me a jolt.
(Before anyone says Im stalking, Im not, no choice but to go that way in this one horse town, didnt have to look but i did)

To be honest Sandi, Im not sure if you are kidding here because you do have a sense of humour I noticed over the months.

Please clarify and tell me if you think 25's advice is not the way to go. I am confused at the moment.

I respect both of you but it seems that your advice is completely the opposite of 25's.

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