yes I have. She was just so calm yesterday and we had a very rational chat. She was on the phone with her best friend and burst into tears and said she had to leave that everything just hit her. So I guess the calmness is over for now. Not sure what to expect when she gets home. I might be looking for a new place to live sooner than I think. I am really not looking forward to her coming home tonight. Part of me thinks I should just go sleep in my car tonight, part of me says no stay here and hang in there DBin.