Hi Islander, sorry to hear you're having a rough day.

The ring thing is something I've thought a lot about. W went down to just her wedding band a while back...I know it's a practical thing on one hand since she is a personal trainer and then has gross anatomy classes three times a week. But still, with the timing of everything with us, it just kinda rubs salt in the wound.

I'm keeping mine on. I'm still married, and that's pretty much it.

I need to follow your example man...gotta stop with the answering of the texts. 25 beat me up pretty good over the past 12 hours on this, and I need to take it to heart. I've pursued her and she ran...think I need to start heading the other direction and hope she follows.

BITS
M: 35
W: 27
T 7.5 years
M 5 years
No kids
My EA: 3/08
Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?)
ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11
W at parents house: 4/16/11

Do or do not, there is no try