From small beginnings come great things

[MichelleLT]

You can have the same goal and not be stuck.

When the mule stops you can get off and try a different tactic. When all else fails, you just keep walking towards your goal.

Your success in DBing isn't necessarily tied to the success in saving your R. Rather it's about success in growing as a person, learning new skills, healing, and becoming the kind of person the WAS is absolutely stupid to walk away from. Even if you don't save this R, these skills will be invaluable to you in all walks of life from interactions with co-workers and family members to dating again.

Have a good weekend no matter what!!!!!!!!!