Bah, finished teaching today and all my students thanked me for the semester and said it was one of their favorite classes, and I just sat there thinking "the woman I married would be really proud of me right now; I wonder where she went."

I need to stop trying to understand. It's not understandable. I just need to see what she does and decide how much I will fund her (too much and she's cake eating; too little and it will force her hand and she'll initiate paperwork).

This [censored]. Where did she go? Who is this person in her place?