what sandi said...PLEASE...do what she said. Do NOT invite your w to the concert. Her non specific probing reference to tomorrow did NOT sound like an invite. Why are you so available to her IF and when she MIGHT call? Why can't you have plans that don't include her? Did you TWO buy the tickets?

Sandi's analysis of your pursuit and your thought process and why you So resist ANY detachment is spot on. Down deep, I think You really don't believe us, do you? Somehow, YOUR Sitch isn't like any other here...

You think YOUR W is "different" and that she secretly does want you to be around and smothering and following and pursuing and bringing up R talk b/c despite all that she says AND DOES that points to the opposite desire of hers, (like when she says BACK OFF and GIVE ME SPACE), she is secretly testing you and wanting the opposite????
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M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change