As for my question about making the m better than it was before, well, if it's not going to be better, than why would he bother coming back? And if it is going to be better, how so? What will YOU do to make it so?
The bottom line is that if the LBSer cannot demonstrate in some way that it will be a different or better m than the one the WAS walked away from, then it's usually doomed. In fact, how was your m better - different the last time you two reconciled, from the 1st time he left?
Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016