Chris, I would suggest that you not discuss the stitch with her at this time. Obviously, she has very strong issues about anyone who cheats. She probably vowed she'd never live with a man like her father. So, you've got to back way off and give her time to deal with things. She's feeling a tide of various emotions, I would think, and can't be expected to heal in a few days.
You want her to forgive you and assure you that she will give the M another chance. Fear does not look attractive on a man. He can be as guilty as sin, but he can't wear that kind of fear and expect his W to be attracted to him. If she forgives you, she'll do it when she is ready and all the begging in the world will not rush her. In fact, I would think it could hinder if you persist in trying to get her to forgive and give you another chance.
You know how DB works. No begging, pleading, clinging, neediness, etc. You have asked for her forgiveness so now you have to stand up and start working on "you". The fact that you cheated does not change the DB techniques. You want her to love you and desire to live with you as your W for the rest of her life. Be the best you can be in drawing/attracting her to that reformed man.
What are the plans for this weekend?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
