And sad to say, I find myself caring less and less. I see him doing some work, but this was not a good night. If he has this much angst and anger about something rather trivial, he must have a lot more about more important matters. I’m kind of done. I’m supposed to be OK forgiving affairs, his leaving his family, dealing with his depression and his anxiety , dealing with the entire household on my own etc. And I am. None of that is fake. But standing firm on stating my opinion on one matter is too much for him to deal with? I would say F that. I will not bend to his strange view that somehow I’m to blame for not being his personal tutor. I will not continue to stand for never knowing whether he will choose to spend the night and take advantage of his wife or whether he will choose to run and hide. I’m close to being done. He needs to do the work. I will be moving on with or without him.
Thatwould be a really odd hill on which, after all you've been thru, to finally make your stand, Alb.
