I would support helping your child doing something for Mother's Day. If you feel so inclined, thank her for bringing them into your life. And then leave it at that and don't put "love, 9"...Just put ypur name there. Do nothing for her birthday. But Mother's Day...I feel like it's also a positive statement to your children, but maybe that's just me.
Who cares what OM does? Why does that even enter your brain? Enough. Re-read the post i sent and the other ones you found helpful.
Questions like "won't she realize she made a HUGE mistake?" and "Can she really be in love with OM?" are useless, rhetorical, destructive, and at this point, tiresome. Stop asking them.
When thoughts of OM come into your skull, put up a big STOP SIGN and don't go there anymore...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
