Thanks 9, the A lasted 3 weeks. I stopped it and suddenly the OW contacted my W via facebook. My W confronted me about it last night. I just feel like I have to let feel like she has some control over this sitch. I dont want to lose her but when we were married she told me there was only one thing she couldnt forgive...me cheating. Her father did it to her mom and it tore the family in half. Now her parents have passed but she has told her sibblings already and I am sure they hate me. I think I can forgive myself but that has never been easy task for me.
