OK, so it has been awhile since I have been on the DB site. A couple of years actually. My wife asked me for a divorce a few years ago because she felt I was being to controlling. Well DB really helped me. I still continue it today. The only problem is I screwed up. I had an affair. I admitted to it as soon as she confronted me. Things between us had never been better, she was actually interested in sex again. (somewhat)....she told me last night that she is 99% sure that she wants a divorce but isnt ready to make any kind of drastic moves at this time. She wants to wait and see how she feels about it later. I see this as an chance...or am I just kidding myself. We have 2 young kids, 10 and 8. Any suggestions? I am willing to walk through hell and back to keep this marraige alive, but she doesnt seem so interested now.
