I thought I was working towards being through to her but in the last couple of days, I realize that I want her back more than ever and IT doesnt make sense to me. WHY do i still love her so much? I know there is the family dynamic and I want my kids to be truly happy and they want us back together soooo badly but its more than that.
It will continue to be confusing for as long as you continue to focus on the outcome. As HARD as it is, you need to break this. DO. Not what, why, when how?
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I believe she is making such a huge mistake that she will regret for the rest of her life. I sometimes "Feel " her missing us as a family. Could she truly be in love with OM and believe she has a good future there?
And then...
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I WILL listen to all this good advice. I PROMISE.
Really? I hope so. I really do. But you need to get past the thoughts and feeeeelings above.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
