You are doing this bc you are genuinely concerned about your W, right?
Of course. I also did love her dad very much and I do still feel like part of the family. The right thing for me to do is be there for her and her family for anything they need.
I just had to admit that her words did make my heart flutter for a second. I'll put it in a box and stash it away.
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NO R talk . IF she initiates, steer away.
Definitely. I really can't imagine her bringing it up right now, but in such an emotional state, who knows. If she does, I will try to politely tell her we have plenty of time to talk about us, right now, we need to focus on her and her family.
So the agenda today. W should call sometime this morning to talk about timing of me dropping off D. I let her know yesterday that I took the day off, so whatever works best for her. She did make one comment of "hoping her mom will be ready" for D to come. So everything is still very much in the air. And understandably so. Very confusing time for all of them.
I will go with the flow.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
