Hi, My wife and I had been married for 18 months when we separated. I had been texting ex girlfriends and been in chat rooms talking to other women for most of our marriage. When I cofessed it my wife left me. She said that it wouldn't be for long if I got counselling and changed which I did. She started a new stressful job in a school where she met a guy who I guess filled the void that she needed as she confessed to me 5 weeks ago to having an affair with him. So we are still separated and now she is seeing someone else. What makes it harder is that we are both Christian so both have sinned before God. I have repented and turned from what I have done and I pray that she does too. Our Church have put so much pressure on my wife to 'do the right thing' that she has now started going somewhere else. The amount we see each other has got less since she confessed but God has told me to trust in Him and wait. It is now 5 months since we separated. I guess I need to know any advice on how much I should contact my wife etc. I love her and know that she has only done this out of a broken place. I have forgiven her completely and hope that she gets the strength to end the affair soon. She has said that she doesn't want a divorce as she feels that there is still hope and hasn't written off the marriage. She is just very scared that I will go back to my old ways. So far I have got the best reaction out of her by being loving, caring and understanding.
