It's so funny because he knows that I would never throw the A in his face. That's alot of our problem. He has always been able to do exactly what he wants and I have always forgiven him. That's why it is so hard for me to detach. I don't see this time as any different, but he does. See, this time...I hurt HIM because of the problems I had with the IUD. He can justify his actions because I actually did something(cause) and then he found someone who could feel the hole inside of him (effect).
It was a rant! I will definitely not deny that! I was snooping and was set off and I just had had enough...that day I know I should have kept my big mouth shut and I did tell him that I was sorry and don't stay mad at me long. His reply was "I never do..now do I?". We are OK as long as I do not say anything that causes him to be uncomfortable. We get along great as long as he can come and go as he pleases and I never say anything controversial!!! Do that make sense??
I really appreciate your words of wisdom...does any of this help to understand better? Most of the time I get on here and rant and I realize that I may not be showing all of the sides to this crazy sitch.
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
I know I should have kept my big mouth shut and I did tell him that I was sorry and don't stay mad at me long. His reply was "I never do..now do I?". We are OK as long as I do not say anything that causes him to be uncomfortable. We get along great as long as he can come and go as he pleases and I never say anything controversial!!! Do that make sense??
