Today is a hard day!!!

[ninelives]

Wow, its hard to fathom that your daughter would say she would rather see him dead. That type of thinking seems older.

Reassure your daughter about your H because it is essential that you put your daughter's needs first. Despite what he has done, that bond between them is essential.

I didnt always feel this way but in the last few months, i see that it is true. The children need to feel safe and secure as possible and let the adults suffer the consequences.

Be united in front of her, not to give her false hope but that no matter what, you will both be there for her.

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