cs I lost both my parents. my mom actually died in my arms. that was very tough. that was before i was m. my father past away give years ago. not as hard as when my mom died.people people deal with death in their own unique way. some like to be left only, some need the support of their family and some need friends. all we can do as an outsider is be what ever the mourning party needs us to be. remember they may need nothing from us.
I know you want to be there for her offer once and let her decide how she grieves.
Very good advice, gr8, thanks.
The last couple convos I have backed off on offering help, and I have noticed she wants to talk about other things. So I have done that with her.
Tonight, the texts back and forth about D are really nice. I am glad she wanted to talk to me to get her mind off of things.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
