DG,

I've thought about it, but she will only talk to me about things that she is feeling. I don't want to push counseling on her as she HATES to talk about her feelings and will only do it with me when I make her talk to me. She is a very scared and confused little girl right now. She tells me that she is sad inside all of the time. It hurts to see because she is usually a VERY happy child and about a month into this she became very quiet, sullen, and temperamental. I just want my happy child back...I'm so worried about her.

My H feels alot of guilt and he gets angry when she acts out. She almost has panic attacks if I start to leave her with him and she knows that I will not be there when she goes to bed. It's awful!!


Me: 31
H: 30
Kids: D9
Together almost 12 years
Married almost 5 years
EA began: 8/10
Separated: 3/11