Oh man...I'm floored by that. Confused, I am so sorry you had to hear that from her. Only a child can be that honest about what she's feeling...just wish our WAS's could take lessons from her.
I agree with not telling H...especially because you really don't know how he's going to take it. Playing devil's advocate here for sure, but it might get read as manipulating if you catch him in the wrong mood.
Not sure what to say about getting him to talk to her...no kids in my sitch so I can't really speak to it. Maybe if you talked to him about how D was doing and you tell him you just get the feeling that she's not doing well with everything? Just see how he reacts to it?
Tough call, I'm sure someone with kids will have better advice here.
BITS M: 35 W: 27 T 7.5 years M 5 years No kids My EA: 3/08 Her EA: 1/11, discovered 3/11 (ongoing?) ILYBINILY, D mentioned 3/8/11 W at parents house: 4/16/11
