I try to check in with my little girl every week or two to see how she is feeling as she doesn't talk about her feelings. It's getting worse for her. What do you say to a child who says that nothing will be any better unless her Daddy comes home or dies??? I was like "you don't want your Daddy to die!" She said "no, but at least then he would not have a choice in not being here." My heart is breaking for her and there is NOTHING that I can do about it. It makes me what to strangle my H. How can he walk away from this precious child when he KNOWS that she is hurting?!?!? I have decided that I will not tell him about that statement as I do not want to hurt him that way. He really loves her so much and that would devastate him.
I just want to wrap her in my arms and let her know that everything is OK. I almost think it's time that my H tell her about the OW so that at least she could understand why he won't or can't come home right now. I don't know what to do...I'm struggling with this one.
Anyone have any advice??
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
