First, Jack was spot on about your referral to "my" son. I caught it too and was confused as to whether it was just your son or both of yours. Two, does the word "cake-eating" translate? My first instinct is that hubby is having his cake and eating it too. He has the OW, he has the wife. What a man!
Red, unless you want the term floormat imprinted across your forehead, forget ML with him. Set some boundaries. Make him honor you by honoring your boundaries. If he can't, well, he can sell that chit somewhere else. Don't make yourself the 'available choice'. Be the 'only choice'. Distance yourself.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
