Hey Gritter. I am certainly in no place to give you advice or comment on your most recent contact with your W. I just want to check in and let you know that even though I haven't been with you since the beginning, I feel like I have. I have read your sitch from the beginning. And you have been an inspiration to me. Thank you so much for everything that you have offered to me and everyone else here. You are truly an asset to this board... regardless of your own personal choices in the near, or far, future.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce