Sweetie, most of them are angry. Angry that they cant figure out what the heck is wrong with them. They know they arent happy, so they lash out at those who are closest to them. It cant possibly be them, so it must be you.
So. they try to get rid of the spouse. Then when that doesnt make them happy, they try something else.
But, you see how we keep telling you that for right now, you need to limit contact. If you dont, you are going to get more of the same.
Tad, you keep asking the same questions, we keep giving you the same answers. And round and round you go.
She is in crisis. And only she can get out of it. You need to get out of her way.
There was no reason for you to contact her today. Your children are old enough to deal with her on their own. She saw it as you pressuring her. You not understanding what she is asking for - space.
