Punkin, I wanted to be sure you knew that I never meant to minimize what your xh did when he snuck into your home. It was cowardly and a terrible thing to do to you.
You are going to be feeling all sorts of things the next few days - sadness, anger, disbelief, relief. Just got to deal with each one as it comes.
We all know you are going to be ok. Of that there is no doubt.