Thanks MHL. You've been a great help. I had some contact with W today. Of course it was negative. I'll explain it further below. I do have a question though. You said:

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She has to miss you before you can be her friend.......

It will take TIME to miss you.......much longer than you think.


With OM in the picture, will she EVER miss me? How can she miss me when she has already replaced me?

So.....Sunday night when I picked up S16, she told me that she may pick him up this weekend on Friday or Saturday. Today is Thursday so I sent her a text wanting to know what the plan was:

M: Are you picking up S16 on Friday or Saturday?

W: Who said anything about Friday? Why what's up?

M: I was just wondering because on Sunday night you told S16 and me that you'll pick him up on either Friday or Saturday.

W: Nothing had been finalized. I have a major paper due for my final on Monday. I am working on it as we speak. I will be lucky to get it done by Monday and will probably be pulling an all-nighter on Sunday. I explained this might be the case to S16 last weekend. I told him that I'd pick him up AROUND 4pm on Saturday.

M: Ok. I was just curious. No biggie.

***** NOW SHE GETS NASTY *****

W: Then don't bust my chops and twist sh!t around. I am under enough stress with finals for 2 degrees.

M: My God. I wasn't busting your chops or twisting sh!t around. I told you that I was just curious. Have a wonderful day!

W: Whatever dude. I don't have time for your b.s.

I didn't respond.

What gives? Why is she so f-ing nasty and mean to me?

She even got very nasty with S18 today.

Last weekend, she took pictures of him and his girlfriend before they went to the prom. She told him that she would email the pictures to him this past Monday.

He texted and asked her about them today.

She went on some tirade about how everyone can wait for them and f-off. She then went on to say that it is too hard to send them all through email. Then she starts demanding pictures that his girlfriend's mom took. Wow.

What is her deal? She is so angry not just at me but everyone.

She obviously isn't happy with her "new" life.

Are they all this angry?

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13