Originally Posted By: canadianMrs.

I'm 95% sure I want to end this marriage, I'm not sure where H is...although if I asked I'm sure I'd get a negative answer.


If your not 100% sure you're not done.....

That last 5% can be a real beotch too....

The last 1% is even worse......

However....

This does not mean you guys are ready for counseling.

I would want to know what the goal of counseling would be???

If it is anything but to save the marriage I would say that it is probably a waste of money.

It is too soon to talk about "co-parenting after divorce"....

you do not even know 100% that is what you want.

Is the OW still in the picture??

If so, no counseling, no contact, nodda.

Hope that helps.

Cheers

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