Am I on the right track?

[islander]

Like I said, I think your best bet is to be patient. Let her contact you, and be friendly with her. They suggest, and I failed at this, to not accept every invitation she gives you.

You are in a better position to db than you think right now. You can thunk, just don't analyze everything. She is lost and things she says don't mean as much to her as they do to you. As LBS, we try to find meaning in everything.