LOL... yeah, the only test is that you have a WAS, your heart is broken, and you are willing to do your best support everyone else in the group...

And on that last one, we recognize that sometimes... you need all of your emotional energy for yourself.

Put the 'BITS' in your signature or sign off with it...

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce