Im sorry to hit you with a 1x2 but she may be lying about the extent of her affair. My w lied through her teeth for so long and even when she got caught red handed she lied until there was no more wiggle room.
Puppy dog tails ( a very smart vet) told me that time and time again but I would not listen. Cheaters lie, period. I was so sure that my w was not cheating I would have bet my life on it.
It may be an addiction right now MOOSe. One that she cant or simply wont give up for the time being.
Im not saying that it is a certainty but you have to keep your eyes open and I hate to say it but IM not buying that she is staying in the guest room. I hope for your sake that she is , but there are waaaay toooo many red flags not to mention that you caught her there red handed.
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