Hey Punkin,

I am glad you are done with yesterday, each day is one more day between you and that day......its significance will shrink with TIME.

Originally Posted By: punkin

The funny thing is, everything he took he listed as marital, which means he would have to bring them back to auction.

I've done the double-dog walk through on the house, and you know what struck me? He didn't take a single picture of the kids or grands. Nada. Just Arts & Crafts artwork. Hope he enjoyed how nice the yard looked.


My XW came into my house about 2 weeks after our divorce and took a diamond tennis bracelet that I had given her one Christmas years ago. (pretty nice one, I worked in the industry at the time).

She had given it back to me last August, I think OM#1 had broken up with her and she was feeling guilty so in tears she gave me the bracelet and told me to sell it so that me and the kids could stay in the house a little longer.

When she found out that I was seriously dating someone else is when she took it. When I noticed it was missing from a drawer I had it hidden in, I called her.

She admitted it saying that she did not want me to give it to my GF, she wanted the kids to have it........LOL.

She did not take one picture of the kids, no school artwork they had done, just a few books of hers.

The madness goes on for them for sure, I think they are frustrated that the pain they feel does not go away with the divorce. They still want to blame us, they still want us to look at them as the victim.

I just try to avoid contact with her and I find that is the best way to deal with her.

You have come so far and done so much for yourself....stay on that path and keep stepping.

Happy Little Friday!!!!

Cheers


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison