Excellent points, KD!

First, I'll say I'm not "chasing" her, but more along the lines of exploring/examining options. You are completely right, that if there are no changes, then the burden won't go away. I fully realize this and have no intention of compromising myself just to get our M back. Not worth it.

For Friday, my expectations are I'm going to go see a play staring my friend and I'm bringing a date. When the play is over, the date ends. I had thought about trying to include a dinner or drinks after, etc., but feel that's forcing myself outside of what my goals are: See a play, bring a date. KISS principle here has the right "feel" without any further expectations.


"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
- Maria Robinson

M: 45 WAW: 36
T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9
ILYBNILWY: 6/2010
W left: 2/2011
W back: 2/2012